Gifts from a far away land :)

Mother In Law sent in a lovely package of very pretty eastern outfits from her Far Away Land,

had to say it lifted my spirits (receiving gifts would lift any self respecting girls spirits),

especially since locating good quality eastern outfits here in my neck of the woods is always difficult.

black is like my ultimate fave colour for the moment!!)

My room looked like a pig sty, well, correct that, not my room, my house, one of the joys of it just being me and hubby living at our place is that i do tend to wander around changing in different rooms and checking out my outfits in all the other mirrors (every mirror makes an outfit look different in my house!), throwing discarded clothes on the floor.

I think my fave is a stapless one, got a big engagement party of one of my besties coming up, perfect outfit to wear :)

Rang Mother In Law to thank her, she was lovely today, no mention at all of how many times have me and her son had sex this week and whether we are doing it right. Thank the Lord.

Works been completely ruling my life recently. Deadlines, research and more research to do.

Told the Boss in a team meeting that as I'm fasting suring the month of Ramadan, PUH LEAZE do not expect my productivity to be as amazing as it normally is.

Cue The Boss and his dry humour (which i do admittedly love). Spent the next hour with us all chatting and debating the facts of fasting etc. (My stomach rumbled a few times in there which i felt was quite relevant)

They all wear eating panini's, sandwiches and salads and repeatedly apologising for eating in front of me

''Oh comeeee on guys, I've been fasting every year since I was like, 12 yrs old I think Im used to seeing ppl eating in front of me!''

Cue giggles and louder munching noises, and a few burps frm the guys. Standard.

To balance out the stress I went shopping with my besties that evening and fell in love with the most gorgeous suede ankle boots

Seriously, arent they the cutesttttttt ankle boots ever?

I will be not taking these off my feet for a long time to come, i told Hubby i'll even wear them in bed.

In hindsight I really shouldnt have told him that in the month of Ramadan, since 'physical sexual activities' during most of the day is not allowed.

By the time the fast is broken and we have eaten and prayed, you literally have no energy to even think about any physical activities.

Is it wrong to be relieved?

I mean com'on, 3 yrs of constant trying makes me a very tired girl,
 im loving a month of relaxing sleep without sticking my legs up aganst the wall for half hour after each session.

In a way, this month is just what I need, a detox for the mind, body, heart and soul, closer to God, and a month of reflecting and making yourself a better person.

Oh, and a lower food bill :)

Mother-in-Law

Its routine that Mother-in-law phones from a far away land, every Sunday morning to have a weekly catch up with hubby and me.

Now, i adore her, i do feel lucky to have landed an affectionate Mother in law, and in the 3.5 yrs of marriage with hubby, me and her have got along like a house on fire.
We chat about anything and everything. well...ahem, not everything but you get the gist.

Except as the months roll by, her calls from a far away place are gettng a bit close and suffocating me for me now.
Lovely as she is, all she asks does is fire questions about whether i'm pregnant yet and why the hell not.
Like im doing it ON PURPOSE.

I get she's desperate for grandchildren. My parents are too. but doesnt she think for one minute how i feel? i should get an award for smiling and laughingly chatting away back to her in a lighthearted manner, when its all i can do to physically forcing myself not to launch a defensive full throttle attack onto my poor MIL when she's 'condescendingly' querying if my periods are on time now, or if im taking my medication on time and if i lean my legs against the wall for 20 mins after sex.....(yes, really she says that to me)

i know im a paranoid lunatic but i cannot STAND being interviewed on a regular basis by MIL. I guess i should be relieved that shes in a far away land and can only interview me over the phone....

I blame hubby, he was the one who told her, without my permission that i have PCO and am on treatment etc, if it were up to me i would have never told her.

I mean, does he not know me by now?!
why oh why did he have to tell my IN LAWS that im the one with the so called 'problem'.

I may be stereotyping but this applies to my in laws, asian in-laws believe that as soon as you marry you should be popping out babies.
The fact that i have not produced them grandchildren 3.5 yrs on makes them believe i am putting my career first and children on a back burner.

Hmph, little do they know.

Since then she has not let up on me and no, its not my paranoia, but i can tell she blames me through the way she talks.

''She doesnt blame you honey come on, don't be ridiculous'' Hubby tried to talk me round.

''Oh no? how would you like it if it was the other way around?? go on, tell them you have something wrong with you and im in the clear, go on'' I retort back turning my back to Hubby.
He grins sheepishly at me and i allow myself to be cuddled, as usual, a sucker for his touch.

I did refuse hubby sex for a week after this.

Needless to say i have booked him in to have a semen sample anaylsis next week. 
Serves him right.